Weekend Action

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Some weekends are relaxing and rejuvenating, and some are non-stop, jam-packed, get it while you can action. This one was all action!


As always I wish I’d taken more pictures, but I guess I was having too much fun, and I can’t complain about that!


Farmers market, zoo, balloon animals, wood fired pizza, smoothies. Saturday started out as a perfect autumn city morning.


Dragged Josh and the boys out to lunch at Navy Pier with friends from out of town- don’t get me wrong, Navy Pier on a Saturday is like my personal idea of hell, but it was so worth it to see (and meet for the first time) good friends.


Group shot madness! Sorry for cutting off your baby @Naptown Organizer!


(This is a total non sequitur, but doesn’t my gorgeous friend make you want to run out and chop all your hair off?!)


On Sunday (I was slightly hung-over and I think I look it) we went to the Walk to support Down in the Southland, a local Down syndrome group. It was so fun and high energy. It was great to be with so many families.


15 Months

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With every month that passes I’m growing a little more delinquent on these monthly pictures. But look at my boy grow!


This is the month when he stopped looking like a baby and started looking like a little boy.


Copley loves sitting, but hates using his legs, we are always working on it in PT. He loves to eat just about everything, but beans are still his favorite. He thinks his brother is the funniest person on the planet- and I hope that’s always true. He gives the cats gentle pets, and throws Murphy’s toy to fetch. He loves to be held only slightly less than he loves to be worn, this boy is a snuggler. He has 4 teeth now- two top and two on bottom, and he’s getting his teeth in the typical pattern, just delayed.


We had his 1 year evaluation for EI last month, and I never wrote about it but I should. I should tell you how much it sucks to sit in a room with people and talk about all the things your child can’t do. It sucks to read the reports and evaluations that enumerate his faults- only 30% delays in cognitive and adaptive, but almost 70% delays in motor. It sucks. It sucks because our whole parenting philosophy is at odds with tracking milestones, rating and measuring shortcomings, and focusing on the can’t dos. Thank goodness eval day only comes around but twice a year. Because once it’s passed we can go back to talking about all the things he can do.

He can do 3 signs (maybe 4, I can’t tell)- more, dad, and eat or mom, it’s tough to tell, I think when he is doing the sign for mama, he accompanies it with some sounds, and eat is silent.
He can roll and slither around lightning fast.
He can tell us when he is sad, mad, happy, amused, bored, in pain… I could go on and on, but the kid has adapted to what his body can’t do, and found a way to just be.

And that’s my son. He isn’t his disabilities, he’s an entire universe of ability.

Capsule Wardrobe

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I have a group of friends online, we are mostly babywearers (though some awesome nonwearing friends have got in on the action) and together we’ve discovered Personal Color Analysis, Kibbe style, proper bra fitting, and Curly Girl Method. It’s been fun and frivolous and frankly, I think all of us are coming out the other side feeling good about the skin we are in. One surprising side effect of all this beauty introspection has been a great simplifying of my beauty routine. Sounds counterintuitive doesn’t it? Spend lots of time obsessing but end up feeling lighter and simpler? Let me explain, now that I know what colors are right on me, I don’t waste time on the wrong colors. Now that I’ve embraced my 2B waves, I don’t waste time straightening and fighting frizz. Bras fitting better = feel better about my body. Kibbe is still a mystery to me, but my take away has been: not everything is going to look good on me, don’t waste time trying to force it.

I woke up last week to find it’s now dark in the morning. Fall is here and it’s time for a wardrobe shake up.

How’s this for a shake up?

33 items
3 months
Project 333


I read the rules and started at How to Build a Capsule Wardrobe


My needs are a little different from her needs (2 bracelets? Who wears bracelets?) so I set about personalizing my list.

5 shirts
1 jeans
2 jeans
1 leggings
1 sweatshirt
2 light sweaters
3 t shirts
2 shirts
2 cardigans
1 sweatshirt
1 Dress
1 Skirt
1 sunglasses
2 necklaces
1 purse
1 camera bag
2 scarf
1 Coat*
3 Shoes

*I need a winter coat. I’ve been wearing my ratty busted maternity coat for 4 winters now! I really need to pull the trigger this year and make it happen.

Through the course of this project I hope to dress simply and chicly, I want to identify the real staples in my wardrobe and use this opportunity to replace any shabby items with quality pieces. This isn’t really a no-shopping challenge for me, I rarely shop now, instead I want to take a cue from what I actually find myself wearing and decide where to spend wisely.




365 Fridays- Week 36

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On Fridays I’m linking up for a 365 hosted by Sarah @ Nurse Loves Farmer, Mindi @ Simply Stavish, and Stephanie @ Behind the Camera & Dreaming.


I’m a bad 365er this week, I took more iPhone photos thatn anything, you can find more of this week’s pictures on Instagram.


Still Life with Buttermilk


Love shooting wraps for Pavo Textiles.


We don’t feed our kids a lot of sugar, but it really is fun watching your kids get super excited about a treat.



20 Things

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Meghan from Particle Woman invited me to participate in this little 20 things questionairre, and because I really enjoyed reading hers and getting to know her a little better, I agreed to play!

Question 1: How tall are you?
I’m 5’5” but online people always assume I’m taller.

Question 2: Do you have a hidden talent? If so, what?
A Hidden talent? Not really, I try to actualize my talents and pursue my passions.

Question 3: What’s your biggest blog-related pet peeve?
My typos! Maybe that’s my hidden talent, I have a real flair for the typo. And when people use the word “musings” in their blog title- it kind of drives me bonkers.

Question 4: What’s your biggest non-blog related pet peeve?
Hmm… apathy. Deliberate ignorance. Lack of self awareness. People who use the R-word.

Question 5: What’s your favorite song?
Who can pick one favorite?! I can’t, but this one speaks to me. And also, this video makes me chuckle.

Question 6: What’s your favorite Etsy shop that isn’t yours?
Knitted Wit makes gorgeous colorful yarns!

Question 7: What’s your favorite way to spend your free time when you’re alone?
I love taking and editing photos, knitting, weaving, but when I get a chance, nothing beats reading a book in the hammock. Heaven.

Question 8: What’s your favorite junk food?
Mmmm, pimento cheese. But I’d take any kind of chip and dip.

Question 9: Do you have a pet or pets? If so, what kind and what are their names?
Murphy, Tiberius, Kitty, Ernie

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Question 10: What are your number one favorite nonfiction and fiction books?
Time Traveler’s Wife and The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing are two books (both fiction) I could read again and again and books that are special to my heart, because they are my husbands favorite book too, and we bonded over our love for them when we were courting.

Question 11: What’s your favorite beauty product?
Maybelline Dream Lumi Highlighting concealer, and L’Oreal Voluminous Millions Extreme mascara.

Question 12: When were you last embarrassed? What happened?
I was recently embarassed at work when a colleague in a position several levels above me basically called me stupid in an email that several people were copied on. It was really hard for me, and hard on my pride, but in the end, it wasn’t received well so I’ve mostly been able to shake it off and move on and take the high road. But it was tough.

Question 13: If you could only drink one beverage (besides water) for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Assuming you don’t mean cocktails (because I love cocktails and could never pick just one) I think the only thing I drink besides water is sparkling water. I like the bubbles. I drink a lot of sparkling water. Henry calls is “Pink” and he likes it too.

Question 14: What’s your favorite movie?
Harry Potter, all of them.

Question 15: What were you in high school: prom queen, nerd, cheerleader, jock, valedictorian, band geek, loner, artist, prep?
I guess I was a loser, but I don’t think much about it anymore. I knew at the time that high school wasn’t real life, I hated it, but always had an eye on the future.

Question 16: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
Colorado probably, assuming I was gainfully employed and could afford it.

Question 17: PC or Mac?
Both, also iPad.

Question 18: Last romantic gesture from a crush, date, boy/girlfriend, spouse?
Josh makes my white wine spritzers, does my laundry, and rubs my feet. What could be more romantic than that?

Question 19: Favorite celebrity?

Question 20: What blogger do you secretly want be best friends with?
There is a whole world of people I love online and wish I could spend more time with in real life. I’m fortunate to be real life best friends with my very favorite ex-blogger, Josh from Berg With Fries.

I’m supposed to tag friends to play, but I’d love to know more about EVERYONE who takes the time to stop by my little piece of the internet, so tag! Leave me a link in the comments with your 20 things!

365 Fridays Week 35 & 36

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On Fridays I’m linking up for a 365 hosted by Sarah @ Nurse Loves Farmer, Mindi @ Simply Stavish, and Stephanie @ Behind the Camera & Dreaming.



I just finished up an online photography class, so most of my pictures from the last two weeks are from class. This is the last one I’m taking for a while, I love them and I’m learning so much, but I’m fried, lots to practice in the interim though!


This was a funny class, it was all about creative editing, so a lot of my pictures from these two week are pushing the envelope in their editing style. It was really fun to be challenged creatively like this.


It is so, so, so hard to get Hen to stand still for a picture, but when he does it is so worth it, what an angel face.


Muahahaha, I tricked him for this one. Kid didn’t even know he was being played!


OK, OK so these next two are actually from the same day…


But how cute are kids eating spaghetti?!


And as ever, I have no shortage of Copley pictures this week.


I’m sure his day is coming, and soon he’ll run from the camera just like Henry does, so I’d better get my fill while I can!


I’m feeling a little bit of burnout right now, so I found a photo-a-day challenge to keep me shooting in September.


It’s all about knitting, so prepare to get just absolutely sick to death of knitting pictures!


And finally… if you’re looking for a great price on a woven wrap, I’m selling! Shoot me an email and one of these beauties can be yours!

Best Friends

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These two have a really special bond. The nice thing about having small children- it’s still OK to be your kid’s best friend.




Baby Days

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Ever since Josh and I decided that our family is complete, I’m hyper aware of how quickly time is passing, aware of my baby growing up before my eyes in a way I wasn’t before.


For instance, in this picture below that I’ working on for an editing class I’m taking, all I can see is that shoulder blade. Babies don’t have shoulder blades, little boys do though. When did my baby turn into a little boy? He still looks like a baby most of the time, but these little details sneak up on me and take me by surprise.


I really am slowing down, savoring moments, soaking in snuggles.


Trying to make memories, but I know that memories too are fleeting. Because I can look back at all the pictures I want, in my mind’s eye, Henry only exists as a three and a half year old. I can no longer conjure memories of baby Henry. And I know that day is coming for Copcop too.

Back To School

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Hurrah! Parents everywhere rejoice!


Henry is not as miserable as he looks!

DSC_0799-2See! School is fun! I promise!


365 Fridays- Week 33

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On Fridays I’m linking up for a 365 hosted by Sarah @ Nurse Loves Farmer, Mindi @ Simply Stavish, and Stephanie @ Behind the Camera & Dreaming.



I shared this picture on Facebook the other day, and it is still making me laugh. Poor Cop.


Hen is such a funny mischievous kid. He makes these faces that remind me so much of myself Hen I’m goofing off. I think that is on of the coolest parts of being a parent, seeing yourself in your kids.


This corner of the yard has always been kind of a mess. Piles of twigs and wood, a broken birdbath the old owners left, lots of weeds, and the decrepit old fence. We’ve been working on the fire pit patio area all summer, and when we had the new fence put in the contractors left a huge mess of dirt and concrete all over the junk that had accumulated back here, so we took advantage of the opportunity to clean it all up. We cleared out all the junk, transplanted the catmint that was taking over my front yard flower bed and filled in the back corner with this colorful, easy to grow plant, and now this little corner is calm, peaceful, and beautiful.


Funny thing about creating that nice comforting space, we’ve actually wanted to hang out back there. Enjoying some vino and nursing my little snuggler- can’t beat that.


The haircut Josh will never let me forget…


And his new super short back-to-school do.  And yes, he’s been wearing that shirt for a few days now.